I’ve been fully nomadic for 13 months now. At the beginning of this month, I sold everything that was left in one of my storage units. At dinner in dt San Francisco a couple weeks ago, someone asked me, “What are the ways you give back to the people you stay with?” I told them, “That’s such a beautiful question.” It got me thinking about this beautiful sea of people stretching from Salt Spring Island to Boulder and down to LA. I said, “Well, I don’t always stay with people fo

dear healers, men’s workers, witches, herbalists, and the like, Hot take: our work is needed out in the world more than we are giving it—and more than just giving it to each other. Picture this: The men’s work we do, but in colleges, for young men who have been given a compass for masculinity that creates civil and social unrest. What if we were able to change just one man’s life, redirect his compass? What if that man becomes responsible for city planning, or becomes a local

As someone who has lived experience of both genders and continues to choose to live as a man, I've had the biological reality of both estrogen and testosterone running through my body. From that place, I can say this with conviction: Women are of the world. Men are in it. Women have provided for us even when we've taken from them without consent. Dear men, this must end. My teacher Ryan Morrisby White asks a question I keep returning to: “What will it take for men to stand in